eng10-5.2· Unit 5: Clauses, Patterns & Modals· ~13 min

Gerunds and infinitives

Verb patterns: + -ing, + to, or both.

In English, some verbs are followed by a gerund (-ing form), others by a to-infinitive, and a few can take both — sometimes with a change in meaning. Verbs such as enjoy, avoid, mind, suggest, can't help, and finish are always followed by the gerund (e.g., 'She enjoys reading'). Verbs such as want, decide, hope, promise, manage, and refuse are always followed by the to-infinitive (e.g., 'He decided to leave'). The to-infinitive is also used to express purpose — it answers 'why?' (e.g., 'She went to the library to study'). After prepositions, only the gerund can follow (e.g., 'He left without saying goodbye'). Some verbs take both forms but change meaning: 'stop + -ing' means to cease an action, while 'stop + to' means to pause in order to do something; 'remember/forget + -ing' refers to a memory of a past event, while '+ to' refers to a duty yet to be done; 'try + -ing' means to experiment, while 'try + to' means to make an effort. For example: 'I stopped smoking' (I quit) vs. 'I stopped to smoke' (I paused so I could smoke).

Key terms

GerundThe -ing form of a verb used as a noun (e.g., 'Swimming is fun'; 'She enjoys reading').
To-infinitiveThe base form of a verb preceded by 'to', used after certain verbs (e.g., 'He decided to leave').
Verb patternThe fixed rule that determines whether a verb is followed by a gerund, a to-infinitive, or either.
Infinitive of purposeThe to-infinitive used to express the reason for an action, answering 'why?' (e.g., 'She went to study').
Dual-meaning verbA verb (stop, remember, forget, try, regret) that can take either form, but with a different meaning each time.
Verb patterns: + gerund vs + to-infinitive
PatternVerbsExample
+ gerund (-ing)enjoy, avoid, mind, suggest, can't help, finish, consider, deny, admit'She enjoys reading'; 'They considered moving'.
+ to-infinitivewant, decide, hope, promise, manage, refuse, offer'He decided to leave'; 'She managed to pass'.
after a prepositionany preposition (without, after, about, instead of, before, from, on, in...)'He left without saying goodbye'; 'She's keen on going'.

Note: 'offer' always takes the to-infinitive ('offered to help'), never the gerund.

Dual-meaning verbs: -ing vs to (meaning changes!)
Verb+ gerund (-ing) meaning+ to-infinitive meaning
stopcease doing something (quit the action)pause in order to do something new
rememberhave a memory of a past actionnot forget to do a future duty
forgethave no memory of a past actionfail to do something (duty not done)
tryexperiment with something to see if it helpsmake an effort, possibly with difficulty
regretfeel sorry about something already donebe sorry about what you are about to say (formal)

Key contrast — stop + -ing: 'I stopped smoking' (I quit). Stop + to: 'I stopped to smoke' (I paused so I could smoke).

Example sentences: dual-meaning verbs in contrast
Verb+ gerund sentence+ to-infinitive sentence
stopShe stopped talking. (She went quiet.)She stopped to talk. (She paused her walk to chat.)
rememberI remember meeting him. (I have that memory.)Remember to call her! (Don't forget — it's a duty.)
forgetI'll never forget visiting Paris. (I have the memory.)He forgot to send the email. (He didn't do it.)
tryTry adding salt — it might taste better. (experiment)She tried to open the jar. (She made an effort.)
regretI regret saying that. (Sorry I said it.)I regret to inform you... (Formal — bad news now.)
Choosing the right pattern: worked example
  1. 1Sentence: 'She was nervous about ___ (perform) in front of the school.'
  2. 2Step 1 — identify what comes before the blank: The word before the blank is 'about'. That is a preposition.
  3. 3Step 2 — apply the preposition rule: After ANY preposition, English requires the gerund (-ing form). Never a to-infinitive.
  4. 4Step 3 — write the answer: 'She was nervous about performing in front of the school.' ✓
  5. 5Common error to avoid: 'She was nervous about to perform' ✗ — the to-infinitive cannot follow a preposition.
Dual-meaning verb: deciding between stop + -ing and stop + to
  1. 1Sentence A: 'He stopped ___ his phone so he could focus on studying.'
  2. 2Step 1 — read the context: The clause 'so he could focus on studying' tells us he gave up using his phone — he ceased that activity.
  3. 3Step 2 — match to the correct pattern: 'Stop + gerund' = cease the action. So: 'He stopped using his phone.' ✓
  4. 4Sentence B (different meaning): 'She walked past the bakery and stopped ___ at the cakes.'
  5. 5Step 3 — read the context again: She paused her walk in order to look — the stopping is for a new purpose.
  6. 6Step 4 — match to the correct pattern: 'Stop + to-infinitive' = pause in order to do. So: 'She stopped to look at the cakes.' ✓
🚫Common mistake

Using the gerund after 'offer': 'She offered helping us' is WRONG. 'Offer' always takes the to-infinitive: 'She offered to help us.' Similarly, 'suggest' takes the gerund — but 'offer' does not.

🚫Common mistake

Choosing 'stop + to' when the context means 'quit': If someone stopped a bad habit, use the gerund: 'She stopped biting her nails' (= she quit). 'She stopped to bite her nails' has the opposite meaning — she paused in order to bite them.

⚠️Caution

After ANY preposition (without, after, before, about, instead of, from, on, in...), use only the gerund — never the to-infinitive. Watch out especially for 'be used to' and 'look forward to': the 'to' in these phrases is a preposition, so: 'I'm used to getting up early' and 'looking forward to seeing you'. 'Without to say' and 'used to get up' are both wrong.

💡Note

Memory tip for dual-meaning verbs: -ing looks backwards (past or existing action); to looks forwards (future duty or new action). 'I remember doing it' = past memory. 'Remember to do it' = future task not yet done.

Rules

  1. 1Verbs enjoy, avoid, mind, suggest, can't help, finish, and consider are always followed by the gerund (-ing form), never the to-infinitive.
  2. 2Verbs want, decide, hope, promise, manage, refuse, and offer are always followed by the to-infinitive, never the gerund.
  3. 3After any preposition (about, without, before, after, instead of, etc.), use only the gerund form.
  4. 4The to-infinitive is used to express purpose, answering the question 'why?' or 'for what reason?'.
  5. 5Stop, remember, forget, try, and regret change meaning depending on whether they are followed by -ing or to: -ing refers to an action already done or in progress, while to refers to an action that follows or is yet to be done.

Practice

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